Relationship Advice

I have tried to get involved with others in a relationship but literally don’t have a passion or even care for it. Sex, is sex in my opinion. But to be completely happy do you really need to be a relationship? Is it really something you need to be truly happy? To me it seems to much like a pain in the arse, and to many feelings, and just putting yourself at risk of getting hurt, etc.. I can go on, but I think you should get the idea by now.

Given the way the media and just people in general emphasize relationships, I think you’d always feel like you were missing out. I’m not saying you couldn’t be happy, but you’d constantly be reminded (on TV, movies, walking in public places) of what you were missing.

Im 15 and shes almost 17. We have been dating for about 4 months and i truely love her and dont want her to break up with me. i just need to know what i can do to make sure that she wont end it.

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What is the general format of marriage counseling, is it helpful? My husband and I have EVERY problem in the book and have our first appt today… what should I expect?

When my husband and I went to counseling I found it to be one of the best things ever. The therapist that helped us didn’t go straight into our problems, instead he just explained to us the different ways men and women think etc…then went on to give us little test to see where we were at with knwoing eachother in all kinds of ways….and this didn’t happen all in one appt. I had so much that I wanted to vent that very first time. But, the way that the therapist had us approach our problems was excellent. I hope that helps. Good luck. It is always good to have an unbias opinion to help you see how the other person thinks and feels.

( i am straight but i support gay and lesbian marriages . i do think that a lot of relationship dynamics are universal . However are there some that different do to gender roles )

as a straight male will i have insight into how lesbian relationships work ?

as a straight male can i understand the dynamics of a same gender relationship

as a straight male can i understand the challenges that lesbians face in relationships

as a straight male should i give advice on domestic violence to lesbians

as a straight male would i have a perspective to relate to why lesbians would resort to physical violence

as a straight male would i have any insight at all as to who started the conflict
My questions were to illustrate a point .
I can give advice to anyone that violence is bad .

i can tell a guy not to hit a woman

i can tell a woman to go to the police if a man hit her

Certain things will always be universal .

I can also understand that while some men are @ssholes and deserve to be thrown in jail , there are women who start physical altercations knowing full well that a man being a man will get a bumb rap on defending himself ( a man even in defence should not hit a woman if at all possible .a man needs to be in a situation where he percives serious injury will occur to him such as losing an eye or him being stabbed or his arm being broken before he should hit back. A bloody lip dosent qualify a man to hit a woman .)

i do think straight women and men have some understanding of the dynamics of a relationship that is heterosexual in nature that a lesbian will not .

just as there are somethings i wont know about in a lesbian relationship

If advice is asked for

Is it possible to fall for someone new rather quickly after ending a long-term relationship and it not be a rebound?

You just know it in your heart. If you are feeling like the only one you can’t get off your mind is the guy befor this one then it’s a rebound for sure, (and that doesn’t mean your a bad person or are trying to hurt anyone, things like that just happen sometimes.)