If your marriage is on the rocks and you want to learn how to save my marriage, then here is some great advice for you. I’ve learned these through my own experience and I think you can benefit from my marriage experience to have a more fulfilling and successful relationship with your spouse.
- Take Action
Simply worrying or hoping things will take a turn for the better is not going to help. Hoping the problem with your relationship is going to go away somehow is not going to work.
You need to take action. You need to be proactive in seeking solutions and repairing the damaged relationship with your spouse. It can be difficult but if you do nothing and just think about it, it’s isn’t going to help either.
- Don’t Go With Your Instincts or “Gut Feeling”
Simply put it this way, your instincts or gut feelings could be wrong and it could cause more damage to your relationship. Instead seek expert advice. Find a marriage councilor and follow their advice.
Marriage councilors have considerably more experience than you and can provide instructions that have been tested and does work.
- Don’t Give Up
It’s amazing how many marriages can be saved even they are on the brink of divorce. Relationships can be repaired and improve. It’s important to never give up on your relationship.
No matter how hard it is, as long as you do not give up hope, there is always a chance you can save your marriage.
Ricky Lim
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May 2nd, 2010 at 2:27 pm
Which steps lead to stop the brokeup of a Marriage?
My wife and I are in troubles. We have thirteen years bonded. We have a 19 year, stepson of mine, not living with us, and two kids (boys) almost 7 and 9. I love her. I think she loves me. No infidelit in this, I’m almost sure. She begin a new job in august. She had change a lot, she is more sociable, she is not making money just relationships and let me all the financial troubles to me, amid I have to support more her buisness.
Iwant (really want) to save my marriage. I need someone to give some advice, some tips, some experiences, etc. I know the obvius (communication, understanding, respect, etc) but I need something faster, something surprisingly heavy to make it happen. Help me with your own examples, creative ideas, something please. Even if some one would coach me… please I’ll be in an ethernal gratitude. omarovelo@yahoo.com. Thanks in advance.
May 2nd, 2010 at 7:29 pm
OOOH BOY
Many women are very wonderfull wifes and once they get out in the real world and start working getting independence they start thinking that life is better.
I would print out this question and let her read it.
I also would be very involved with her and her new friends.
My ex did not want anything to do with it and it seperated us more and then divorce unfortunetly I was dumb and did not have anyone to encorage me how important marraige is.
I thought the grass was greener on the other side. though my marriage was not perfect it was sure better then spending the last 8 years alone.
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May 2nd, 2010 at 7:31 pm
I’m not sure what is happening in terms of "she started a new job in August and she is not making money just relationships"? What is she a hooker and you’re the pimp?
If you really want to move fast here you do need to communicate with her. You need to sit her down after the children are in bed and talk to her about your feelings, your insecurity and ask her how you can be a part of her new social circle. You can only talk about yourself so you could tell her that you are concerned.
It will be up to her whether she sees your marriage as something to work on.
If you’re upset because she is spending more time away from the home and the family than that is something to talk about as well. There needs to be some compromise on both parts. If she wants to be out more that means you will need to pick up around the house more. But her being out more also means that she should be contributing to the household finances.
If this is a business that she is undertaken, is this really a good time to being doing that or can a loan offset the financial woes you are experiencing.
Good luck. But set a meeting up with her tonight to talk about things. The more you let this go on the more it will eat at you and wreak havoc on you.
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May 2nd, 2010 at 7:33 pm
The only thing I can recommend is to get the book "The Divorce Remedy" by Michele Weiner Davis. This book changed my life and my marriage,,Please get it as soon as you can and follow the steps,,They work,,,good luck!
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May 2nd, 2010 at 7:35 pm
get a babysitter for the boys, have a romantic candlelit dinner at home, recreate the moment you proposed to her, or a romantic moment in your life together. something that will let her know that she is still the one for you..
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