Relationship Advice

A Relationship is fragile like a glass. Up till you hold it, it will look perfect adorning your hands and once it will fall; you will see it tearing into several pieces on the floor. Though, you can preempt the fall of a glass by holding it tight when stumbling from your hands, what about relationship? Warning signs might help you in bringing your relationship to normalcy at the last minute. And, on the first place our bond would have been strong and healthy. If you also think this way, then these tips for building healthy relationships are just so right for you.

Mutual respect- if both the partners respect each other, I am sure they will completely be in awe of one another. Sometimes your insecurity and fear of loosing your beloved helps you to regard your partner, sometimes it may be your basic nature to mind your spouse’s space. Respect in a relationship means to value the other person’s identity, give away to his wishes, understand your partner inside out and accept their decisions. Mutual respect is a prerequisite for a healthy relationship. A feeling of reverence for your beloved will show you heaven on the earth.

Trust- it is the foundation of a relationship. If you keep eying on your partner and watching their acts, your bond will rupture now or later. Being protective to some extent is good, but defining its limits is a hard task. There is a thin line of distinction between getting protective or possessive for your partner. Understand the difference and do not fall for the second word. If your partner just goes by, while you are talking to your male friend, means his faith in you is perhaps unshakable and if he stands by and eavesdrops your conversation with him then your relationship is in a big trouble. Watch out for his attitude and decide the big “T” factor.

Honesty- Honesty builds trust in relationship. If you’re not honest with your partner, your relationship wouldn’t work. Your comfort zone with your partner decides your honest approach towards him. The smallest and innocuous lie sometimes just upsets your relationship. You cannot even think its devastating consequences; cheating and lying to your partner can splits you relationship on sour terms. A one-time lie would leave your partner suspecting you the next time, even if you’re honest.

Support- giving a shoulder to cry on in the bad time of her life won’t do all. Some magnanimous people offer you help only when you’re going through a rough phase of your life and in the good days is hard to find their presence in your life. But your partner should always stand by you in your happy times and sad times as well. He should feel equally delighted when you are promoted in the office and should share your concerns when your parents are parting ways.

Individual space- Don’t forget yourself while making compromises. Adjustment is needed in a healthy relationship but that doesn’t mean you should start ignoring your wishes and desires. Apart from your beloved, there are ten more relationships (parents, friends, cousins, etc) to worry about and care for. Before going out with each other, you had your own sweet life; don’t sacrifice your interest and hobbies. Neither of you should halt your social life or drop on your individual interests. Make new friends, do what you like and move ahead in life.

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