If you have been through a break up recently, you would know that it is not easy to deal with. Sometimes it takes a couple days for it to really hit you, but you realize that heartbreak is painful and coping with it can be difficult. While it may feel like it is impossible to get over a break up, I have 3 great tips to help you get through this difficult time in your life.
1. Feel Your Own Feelings!
Sometimes people struggle with their feelings, that is why it is good to write your ex a “grief” letter. This letter won’t actually go to you ex, it’s more so for you. Write down things like; What are you angry about? What do you miss? What do you think this break up means? By the time you are done writing the letter you’ll have gotten a lot of grief off your shoulders.
2. Do Things You Love!
Write a list, yes write it, of think you love to do. So if you are ever feeling down, go to that list and do one of those things! This helps a lot when getting over a break up. It is also a really good way of speeding up the process to move on. You can also keep adding things to your list, never stop!
3. Learn From Your Break Up!
You need to learn from this past relationship what went wrong. This will help you in future relationships, or even rekindling the one you just ended. Were you no compatible enough? Was communication poor? Think back on these type of things and learn from it.
Obviously these three tips are just scratching the surface of ways to getting over a break up. Whether you want to move on, or rekindle what was lost, check out my website below!
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March 10th, 2010 at 4:07 am
Any good tips for getting over a break-up?
My g/f of 7 months out of nowhere called it quits today….any good advice to get over her will be greatly appreciated. She said I treated her great and everything but there was nothing there anymore. To say I am "devestated" would be an understatement of the century…
March 10th, 2010 at 9:09 am
Dont worry .. Its only 7 months not 7 years. You will be over her in no time. If you are totally totally bummed and depressed about this, start hanging with your friends AGAIN .. We all know that we tend to dump our friends for a bit when we start new relationships .. But give them a call again and just get out and have some fun. Try considering trying new sports .. You can do the rebound thing, but what does that really accomplish .. !?!
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March 10th, 2010 at 9:11 am
cry- let it out!!! keep your self busy ,surround yourself with loved ones
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March 10th, 2010 at 9:13 am
think about it this way someone better that will appreciate u is to come.keep ur head up and don’t cry i know its harsh. maybe u were too much for her. if she said u were great its because u were so don’t feel bad and have a low self esteem for that. Trust me u will find someone out there that will love u and that u will love. good luck and keep ur head up buddy. life doesn’t end because of a break up.
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March 10th, 2010 at 9:15 am
The worst thing you could do at this point would be to over-analyze what went wrong, why she wanted out, did she meet someone else, etc. Luckily you only invested 7 months, so perhaps she did you a favor instead of stringing you along for further unproductive time. The thing to do now is get back into the game (believe me now, there is PLENTY out there), stay busy and take advantage of the summer. I know I have been where you are now and it does suck, but I could kick myself for all time I spent brooding and moping over it. None of them are worth it!
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March 10th, 2010 at 9:17 am
I had a guy end a realtionship with me after about 3 months and it killed me. I listened to A LOT of angry music, I cried a little, but I mostly depended on my friends to get me through it. Your probably too good for her anyways. I spent a lot of time in my room, just thinking and listening to music. I listened to A LOT of Stevie Nicks and Fleetwood Mac (they were a band who consisted of 2 couples and during the making of the second album all of the couples broke up- so their are sad/empowering songs by all the members of this group). I wrote a lot. You should do some thinking about what you really want in life. Take some time to enjoy being single and find yourself. Best of luck. *chinup* It may seem like the heartbreak is endless, but it will end and life will go on.
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