we been dating for 5months and she is extremely obsessed about me but the thing is I dont want a long distance relationship anymore its been getting so stressful not being able to see her anymore, having to wait till 6 to even talk to her, not being able to help her with her problems, and I just lost the feelings I had for her before. she said I break up with her she would just die and I worry that if i do she might kill herself or get really messed up. when I think of how to handle this the conclusion I come to is suicide whenever I try to breakup with her she always gets me back I cant stand it anymore…
Sorry for the bad grammar that happens when I’m stressed out…
I am breaking up with her because she lives so far away and yes I do feel horrible for wanting this…
say to her that you cant handle seeing so little of her on a long distance relationship, and i think the only reason she is saying about her wanting to kill herself is you to feel sorry for her so you will go back to her
How To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back – 3 Things You Must Not Do To Stop Break Up
How to get my ex boyfriend back when he is ignoring me? I have tried to call him many times but he didn’t answer my call. I waited for his reply but didn’t receive any. So I tried text messaging and it doesn’t work too. I am really at a loss. What should I do? What can I do?
Does the above situation sound very familiar? Are you having similar problems as the one described above? Well, if you are thinking of getting your ex boyfriend back, it is very important that you are aware of the things that you should not be doing.
However, don’t feel bad if you have already done them. We are just human beings and we do make mistakes from time to time. Furthermore, it is even easier to make those mistakes when we are in a poor emotional state. And there are always ways to improve the situation if you have already made those mistakes.
There are many things that should be avoided but in this article, we will just focus on 3 things that you should avoid doing.
So how to get my ex boyfriend back? What are the 3 things that I should not do?
1) Do not contact your ex boyfriend several times per day
Just like the scenario described above, calling him several times per day is not going to help especially if he is trying to avoid you. By doing so, it makes you appear needy and desperate. This is definitely what you do not want. It is normal that you will try to avoid needy and desperate people.
2) Do not contact his friends or family
There may be reason why you want to contact his friends or family members. Perhaps you can’t accept his reason for breaking up. You want to find out if he is dating another girl. Well, it may be tempting for you to do that. But no matter what happens, don’t do that. It makes the situation worse once your ex boyfriend finds out about it.
3) Do not argue with him about the breakup
It doesn’t matter whether you can accept his reason for the break up or not. You shouldn’t argue with him about the break up. You shouldn’t try to convince him that he should not break up with you. Most of the time, this will never work and will only make him think that he has made the right decision to break up with you.
To get boyfriend back, you will not want to do the 3 things mentioned above.
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How To Stop Break Up – Contacting Your Ex Tactically
“How to stop break up when my ex completely ignores me? He/she doesn’t even bother to give me a reply. Do you think I still have any chances?”
Are you trapped in the situation as described above? Or perhaps you are in a worse situation? If your ex is ignoring you, chances are you have tried to contact him/her too early or too often.
Sometimes, it depends on your stages of break up. Let’s look at each stages separately.
(The tips below apply to members of both genders. For simplicity, I will use “him” and “her” interchangeably)
1) You just broke up with him
Since you just broke up with him, you don’t want to contact him too early. Now is definitely not the time to talk to him. You must be going through a tough time now and your mind is likely in a confused state. And perhaps your ex may also have the same feelings even if he is the one who suggested the break up.
Not good conclusion can result from two confused minds. Therefore, give both you and him some time to cool down. One month should be a good period. If you think you need slightly more time, it is alright too. Just make sure it is not too long.
2) You have broke up with her for quite some time already, for at least a month
If you are ready emotionally, you can start to contact him. But you don’t want to overdo it. Just give her a call. If she doesn’t answer, don’t keep on calling until she answers your call. You do not want to appear needy or desperate in front of her.
If she sees that you call her so aggressively, she will know. Instead, you want to wait a few days before giving her another call. Probably, she will be curious about why you are looking for her and may decide to answer your call.
Proceed gradually, and you will definitely increase your chances to win your ex back.
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I’m going out with this guy, and he’s really nice, but lately, he’s been being very jealous and controling and I can’t take it anymore. I need to end things, and the sooner, the better. But I really don’t want to hurt him, because he tells me VERY often how much he loves me, and that he wouldn’t have a reason to get out of bed if he didn’t have me. How’s the best way to break up with him without hurting him or breaking his heart?
No there is no way to do it than just doing it! He will continue trying to control you any possible way. I dated one just like him. It was the worst. The sooner you do it the better before you get too emotionally invested in the relationship. This guy I dated was sure I was cheating on him when I wasn’t even considering it. C R A Z Y !!! The best way to do it, is just by sitting down with him in a public place, and very gently telling him that you don’t think it is going to work out between the two of you. You wish him the very best, but you can’t imagine the relationship working out. You don’t see yourself changing to be the person he needs you to be and no matter how much he thinks he loves you, you won’t measure up to what he needs. More importantly, you don’t want to be with someone who is jealous or controlling and as much as he thinks he is capable of changing, you do not. Tell him you wish him best and right now it is best to move on. If he asked to be friends, say maybe later, but right now is too soon. Good luck!